Treat people as if they were WHAT THEY OUGHT TO BE,
And help them become WHAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OF BEING!
I just read a blog…. an inspiring blog- describing and analyzing how sometimes its good for you to shut up and control your words which are spoken in anger; which you will definitely regret later on.
So, now I am going to tell you a way about which I have read somewhere…. anywhere.
It is generally called- THE THREE GATES TEST.
Whenever you’re very angry…..impatient and want to say something rude or some ill words, then undergo the Three Gates Test.
I GATE- ARE THESE WORDS TRUTHFUL?
then pass your words to the second gate…..
II GATE- ARE THESE WORDS NECESSARY?
then pass your words to the third gate……
III GATE- ARE THESE WORDS KIND?
THEN ONLY LET THOSE WORDS LEAVE YOUR MOUTH.
Hope you all would try and make it habitual to undertake this test and make it an integral part of your life.